Luxury Travel for the
Grown-Up Families & Adult Kids

Where to go on a luxury vacation with your adult kids

As the children grow up and fly the nest, your time spent together as mother and daughter or father and son becomes more rare and precious.  Now’s the time to take on bucket-list adventures, celebrate milestone birthdays, and enjoy time with each other on new terms. And now that you’re no longer restricted by the school calendar, it’s also the perfect time to travel outside the peak travel months to avoid the crowds; consider September instead of August, May instead of June, January instead of December. We’ve got the perfect trips for you.

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The Best Places to Travel With Your Grown Up Children

Japan

A mix of ancient history and modern technology. Now’s the perfect time to explore this incredible place alongside your family. Learn to make the perfect noodle soup in a ramen masterclass and meet the Sumo wrestlers behind Japan’s most iconic sport. For something really out of the ordinary, ask us to arrange a special visit to a sacred Dojo in Tokyo where you’ll receive martial arts lessons from your very own Ninjutsu teacher. A place of learning and peace, you’ll take a journey through the history of the Ninja, donning an authentic costume, learning fighting techniques and handling their trusty weapons. And no, you can’t take them home to show your friends.
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Norway

The Lofoten Islands. These are the perfect place to capture the whole family’s interest through unforgettable adventures, jaw-dropping landscapes, and heavenly hotels. Channel your inner Viking as you kayak through glistening fjords on an off-the-grid trail, or lace up your boots and hike to the top of Vagakallen Mountain, one of the Island’s most iconic peaks. Fancy more of Europe while you're here? Discover our favorite European family destinations next.
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Hawaii

Hawaii isn't labelled a paradise for its white beaches and blue sea alone. This is also a destination full of mountains, volcanic National Parks and enigmatic jungles. From snorkelling and mountain biking to helicopter rides over the islands, your Hawaiian adventure can be as wild as you and your family wish. In Maui, you’ll get the chance to paddle out on the water in a sea kayak, searching for turtles, dolphins, and even Maui’s famous humpback whale. Wander barefoot on the beach before enjoying a gourmet beachside picnic catered specifically for your each and every need.
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Morocco

Over the years, our Travel Experts have got to know almost every nook and cranny of Morocco, resulting in us creating the ultimate route through the country, perfect for first-timers to North Africa. From hot air balloon rides over the Agafay Desert and vintage sidecar trails through Marrakech, to uncovering the best street food corner in Fes, the activities here are perfect for all ages. Time to relax? Live like a local and indulge in a traditional hammam before being whisked off to the idyllic Kasbah Tamadot, one of our all-time favorite Moroccan hotels. Sitting high in the Atlas Mountains the views from your bedroom balcony are just waiting to be Instagrammed.
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Peru

While visiting Peru and the beautiful Machu Picchu is fascinating for young kids, as your children get older the more able they may be to adjust to high altitudes and climb the lesser-known Huayna Picchu. On this South American trip, you’re guaranteed to get a real mix of culture and adventure, from receiving a blessing on Lake Titicaca and pisco tasting in Cusco to hiking in the Sacred Valley.
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India

During this Indian journey through Rajasthan, we’ll take you and your adult kids from city culture in Mumbai to the wilderness of Jawai. Jump in a jeep and take your family out on game-drives, passing lakes lined with pink flamingo and catching a glimpse of the mighty leopard hanging in the trees. After learning about their hunting habits and footprints from your private guide, reconnect with your family around the campfire.
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Frequently Asked Questions

About our luxury family vacations with young adults

What makes a vacation with adult children different from traveling with younger kids?

The dynamic shifts from keeping everyone entertained to creating shared experiences that genuinely interest each person. Adult children have their own tastes, schedules, and sometimes partners to consider. The best trips balance togetherness with breathing room – think a private villa with communal spaces for dinners but separate wings for downtime, or a safari where you explore together by day but have your own suite to retreat to. We design itineraries that bring families closer without anyone feeling like they’re on someone else’s vacation.

How do you plan a family vacation when everyone has different interests?

We start by understanding what each family member actually wants from the trip – not just destinations, but how they want to feel. One adult child might crave adventure while another prefers relaxation; parents might want cultural immersion while their kids want nightlife nearby. The solution is rarely compromise – it’s creative itinerary design. A week in Japan, for example, can include a temple stay for the culture seekers, a ski day for the thrill seekers, and world-class dining everyone enjoys together.

What are the best destinations for multi-generational trips with adult children?

It depends entirely on your family’s shared interests, but destinations with variety tend to work well. Italy offers food, history, adventure, and relaxation in close proximity. Costa Rica combines wildlife, beaches, and soft adventure without long travel days. Japan delivers cultural depth alongside modern comforts. For families who want true remoteness together, a private lodge in Botswana or Patagonia creates the kind of focused, phone-free bonding that’s hard to replicate elsewhere. We’ll match destinations to your family’s specific mix of interests and fitness levels.

How far in advance should we book a family vacation with adult children?

For peak seasons and high-demand properties – think safari lodges, European villas in summer, or Japan during cherry blossom season – booking 9-12 months ahead gives you the best options. That said, coordinating adult schedules is often the bigger challenge. We recommend locking in dates as a family first, even tentatively, then working backward to find destinations and experiences that fit. We can also suggest shoulder-season alternatives that are easier to book and often more rewarding.

How do you handle budgets when some family members want to contribute?

This comes up often. Some families split costs evenly, others have parents covering the trip as a gift, and sometimes adult children want to contribute to specific experiences. We can structure proposals and payments however works best for your family – separate invoices, tiered contributions, or one point of contact handling everything. The key is deciding this upfront so the planning process stays collaborative rather than awkward.

What if our adult children want to bring partners or friends?

Adding partners or friends changes the group dynamic, but it doesn’t have to complicate things. We’ll adjust accommodation to give couples privacy while keeping shared spaces for the whole group. Activities can flex too – perhaps the core family does a private experience one morning while partners enjoy spa time or explore independently. We’ve planned trips for families bringing new partners, long-term partners, and even close friends who’ve become honorary family. The goal is making everyone feel included without losing the family focus.